Monday, February 14, 2011

The HAPPY Single Girl on Valentine’s Day

Why am I embracing Valentine’s Day when no suitor is making my heart race and the mouth-watering sweets in my office are hurting goal #4? Two words: The Summit.

Days after this blog began, a colleague/friend approached me to moderate a group over the weekend. The purpose? Bring a handful of her friends together to address their goals for 2011; however, it transformed from an excuse for mimosas to the kick-off of a fresh start to all of our lives.

In conjunction w/ my colleague, the agenda was written, challenges were created and food was plentiful. While my role was to moderate the three hour discussion and ensure these ladies started off on the right path, they in turn provided me with a gift I didn’t even know I needed.

Have you ever felt like you were all alone, even when surrounded by people; or pondered if you were single because you’re not quite good enough? Have you wondered if you should know what you’re doing by now, but instead are spinning in circles? Have you ever asked yourself, “is this all there is to my life?” If so, welcome to the party.

After introductions, we jumped into each lovely lady’s goals. Tears fell, laughter spread, confessions were made and, to my surprise, this group of strong, successful women grew closer right before my eyes. And somewhere in the midst of this incredible madness, I finally felt like I had a purpose in life – help people find their way to success and happiness. To my surprise, I am GOOD at this, as in “I-could-really-make-a-difference” good. Ties in nicely with #19!

Not only have I become part of a spectacular group of friends, but the group is playing a major role in me achieving my own goals. You will hear more about these admirable women and their personal success in the coming year, but for now, I want to thank the ladies of The Summit – on Valentine’s Day - for helping me remember that along with loving my friends and family, I must learn to love myself before I can make a difference in the world.

Happy Valentine's Day!

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